Wednesday, October 15, 2008

More about "Erotic Slavehood"

I have finally worked my way through the book into the area that I feel many slaves will consider the fun part.;) This section is all about being a sex slave. In the very beginning she talks about how many slaves first discover their submissive tendencies in a sexual context. I agree with her and it started me thinking about how many folks ever move past that. I see many people on line especially who only want to submit in a sexual way. I'm not saying that is a good or bad thing, just wondering I guess.

In the next section she talks about sex workers as role models. This got me to thinking about my service and how in many ways it is like a profession. I'm always seeking to learn better ways of serving. I'm not sure that I'm really trying to learn new things sexually, so that landed in the things to do pile...lol. There was a great quote in this section that I just have to share...

"At it's best, sex work can become a spiritual calling, a vocation in the highest sense. Sex workers are healers and priestesses. They take a powerful experience - sex- and use it to move themselves and others into ecstacy and communication with the divine."

Next she moves into sex as psychology. She talks about how attitude is what makes a sex slave different than a lover. She focuses on serving vs self gratification, discretion, integrity, and honesty. From her she moves on to cover self care. I liked how she talked about getting enough rest for the body, mind and soul so that you can truely be the best slave possible.

She covers safer sex and talks about educating yourself. Personal care including: shaving, enemas and douches, controlling orgasm throught PC exercises and tantra, masturbation and erotic touch including how to get over shyness around stripping ect...

Next she covers clothing, restraint, and chastity devices, notes on corsetry, belts and cages. following this we move into anal plus, oral service, vaginal service including: Toys, Penis, fisting and g-spot stimulation. Lastly she covers anal sex.

Whew! Yeah that was alot of sex to cover...lol. Overall I liked what she had to say and as I've stated before I like her writting style. In this section of reading I really appreciated all of the safety advice she gave. Two thumbs up for me!

Erotic Slavehood by Christina Abernathy

kitten

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

More From "Erotic Slavehood"

This portion of the book was about Household Management. I thought it was written at a pretty simplistic level, but then again that is what some folks need. I found myself being really pleased that she put so much importance on this part of service. I feel that often slaves think that it is all about the sex and then are disappointed to learn that there is more to it then that. So she starts off talking about housework and cleaning. She outlines the reasons why a slave might want/need to know how to do these things.

Housework: first up is basic cleaning. She gives the submissive tips on how to get started.

Inventory all rooms
Go over each room asking yourself, "Is there anything I do not know how to clean?".
Break the jobs into small manageable tasks.
Gather your tools.
Complete each task before moving on.
Note any difficulties you encounter, brainstorm solutions.
Note how long each task takes.
Draw up a regular cleaning schedule.

Laundry: In this section she really just gives the basics of doing laundry.

Dishes: Again just the basics of hand washing and using a dishwasher.

Grocery Shopping: In this section she goes into great detail about how to formulate a list. She talks about never shopping hungry and meal planning.

Basic cooking: In this section she discusses basic cooking skill, simple meals, recipes and lastly how to make coffee and tea.

All of this info is really well laid out even if it seems rather elementary. No slave would have much of an excuse after reading this especially with all of the exercises and extra reading resources she provides.

Erotic Slavehood
Christina Abernathy


kitten